The Original Post
i made a post about how we “hooked up” on a ski trip already but yea. i sucked his dick, weve been best friends for YEARS and we have never done ANYTHING previously but o my god
i just cant stop thinking about it
and how good it would be and how COMFORTABLE i would feel with him and its bugging me out ALL I WANT TO DO IS JUST DO IT and maybe just once or twice
but idk his vibe. we were both drunk and after it happened he kinda freaked out because we are so close and he thought things would be weird but its been the complete opposite and weve hungout after and if anything we’re even closer cause of this so idk why we dont just get it over with😭
i also NEVER got anything back cause i was on my period but god i would do so many things with him right now AND I ONLY HAVE 4 DAYS TO DO IT.
but idk if he would😭😭
its killing me the tension is fucking aggravating and all i wanna do is HIM
apologies i cant say this to any of my close friends because we shook on it to keep it secret because nobody has to fucking know that happened but its killing me and i literally dont know if he feels the same.
What Reddit Said
Reddit was immediately curious about the four-day deadline, with the top comment hilariously asking if someone was “getting drafted to Mars.” However, most commenters focused on giving OP practical advice. The consensus was overwhelmingly supportive of her taking action.
Many Redditors pointed out that the signs were promising. In fact, several noted that if their friendship had grown stronger rather than awkward after the hookup, he likely had feelings too. Moreover, commenters emphasized that guys are typically receptive to direct communication about physical attraction.
The Verdict
The overwhelming consensus: shoot your shot. This best friend hookup regret situation has all the green flags Reddit looks for – increased closeness, no awkwardness, and obvious mutual attraction. Most agreed that honest communication was the only way forward, especially with her mysterious deadline looming. This is a classic case of relationship advice where the fear of rejection shouldn’t outweigh the potential for something great.
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