I cook dinner every day. Or what you could realistically say every day, except for the occasions where we get takeout or whatever else. I wasn’t directly called an asshole for this, but there was a remark of “You get the ~~bigger~~ better piece, huh?”
**(corrected ‘bigger’ to ‘better’ as people thought it was a big enough difference to leave someone hungry)**
I feel like when I’m the one who figures out what we’re gonna eat, does the grocery shopping, cooks the dinner, then I may have the right to decide who gets who when plating up.. Am I greedy?

I wanna point out that if we get takeout or something like that, I’ll offer up whatever I think they might like, it’s just that when I cooked the meal and such, I feel like I can take the ‘good cut’..

**EDIT**: *To add some info, since the brunt objective stuff isn’t enough;*
I always cook more than enough food, often too much, which is a different problem. It’s not supposed to be a relationship thing, but I cook for my partner and our child (our kid is too young to eat our food, so I make them a separate meal) We’re simply talking MINISCULE levels of bigger piece of meat, or better sear, or whatever else qualifies as “better piece”. I’m way bigger than my partner (practically, *almost* literally twice the size) I don’t ALWAYS take the best piece, but I would say I do it more than I give it. It’s not 50/50, skewed towards me taking it more often than giving it. As I *also* pointed out, if there’s a piece of something I know my partner likes more than I do, I’ll readily give that piece, even if I also like it, if I know it’s their favorite (or really appreciated).

An example is 4 pieces of meat. 3 the same size, 1 a bit smaller. I’d take 2 same-size and give the normal sized and smaller to my partner.

**(((NOBODY LEAVES THE TABLE HUNGRY – THERE’S LEFTOVERS 99% OF THE TIME)))**

**EXTRA EDIT**\*(why is this needed??)\*: The comment was not from a harmful, hateful, angry place. I made one of the dishes we both favor, like top 5 kind of dishes I make, and my partner commented on me having a ‘better’ piece, with a figurative (maybe literal) curl of their lip. This is not a relationship AITA. This is about the act of taking the ‘better piece’ as the cook.

For other clarification I don’t **ALWAYS** take the ‘better piece’ but I will admit I do it a majority of the time, let’s say 60%. Keep in mind there’s a bunch of dishes that don’t have separately cooked pieces, in those cases it’s obviously not possible to take the ‘better piece’.