My husband and I visited our friend’s cabin for a celebration. My husband is more of an introvert and I am more of an extrovert, especially when it comes to being around our close friends who I’ve known for many years. He was brought into our friend group about 3 years ago and that’s how we met. We’ve been together for 1.5 years now. We arrived at the cabin early and when everyone else started to arrive, including the hosts of the cabin, he started to get very quiet and reserved. He doesn’t usually like larger group settings but this was just a group of our 10 mutual friends that we’ve known for years, no one new or different. On Saturday morning, he said that he wanted to take my car to go skiing on the mountain before everyone woke up. I thought that sounded like a great idea for him to get some exercise and do something he really enjoyed. He left early in the morning and said he’d be back by 12-1pm. 12pm turned into 1pm, turned into 2pm. When I called him, it kept going to voicemail. I started to get concerned but just tried to tell myself that he probably didn’t have any service on the mountain. Once 4pm hit, I started to get really worried, calling his phone with no answer. Finally at around 4:30-5pm, I get a text message saying that he was home. He had gone skiing, decided that he didn’t want to come back, took my car, and left me at the cabin. When I asked him how I was going to get home, he just told me that he already contacted our friend and he said he would do it. When I approached this friend, he said that my husband doesn’t even have his phone number and definitely didn’t contact him to ask. Yes, I was surrounded by friends and someone could probably drive me home, but it still felt really shitty to have been left behind with honestly no regard to how I would get home or how leaving me without even telling me the plan would make me feel. If he didn’t want to be there he could have let me know. If he didn’t want to come, he could have stayed home. But this made me feel abandoned and horrible, especially for the friend who invited us to the cabin, who I now had to tell that my husband just left me here for them to figure out what to do with. I’m just not sure what to do with this. My friends think this is really shitty and somewhat out of character for him but they are frustrated too because they invited him to join in the celebration, and he just left without saying anything to anyone. I guess I’m just not sure what to do here or how to talk to him about this. Whenever I try, he just shuts me down and walks away. How do I approach this? Any advice is appreciated.