The other day I was looking for an old picture in my husband’s phone, we’ve been married for 14 years now and together for 18 with a 17 year old daughter and two other kids and we go through each other’s phones all the time it’s normal because we love each other, he has multiple app folders, I never went into all of them before but I got curious and found out that he has Reddit which is really surprising because he always called Reddit cringe and never used it infront of me, so I opened it up and found out that he’s had an account and has been active for years and it’s fucking disgusting.

He’s a full on cuck, he has multiple different posts about being a cuck, he has tens of chats where he sends these random men nude pictures of me and just pictures off of my instagram where they put their dicks on top of it on a different screen, it’s fucking disgusting, he wants other men to fuck me in our bedroom while he watches, it’s so fucking disgusting and I feel humiliated and abused. He’s been doing this for years. And I haven’t found anything yet of our daughter thankfully so but it horrifies me that he might have some of these disgusting feelings about her as well.

It really hurts and saddens me because throughout our entire relationship and marriage yes we had the usual couple fights but he was genuinely amazing, never cheated on me never hit me never did anything. He’s an overall great husband and dad who always loved me and my kids, but it’s like this is a whole different man on Reddit, like even the way he talks, in real life he’s a manly guy but he texts on Reddit like a pathetic loser that gets pushed around.

Should I pretend I didn’t see anything here or what? Any advice would be helpful and appreciated