The Original Post
Ok, so my partner (36F) and I (36M) have been married for 11 years….our biggest fight has been because of Subtitles on Netflix, I want it, she does not….
My reasoning, I follow the story so much better when it is on, her reasoning…it is distracting. I said that when I decide on something we need to have it on, but it does create some friction still. AITA?
What Reddit Said
Reddit overwhelmingly supported the subtitle-loving husband. Most users agreed that subtitles are essential for modern viewing. In fact, many pointed out that sound mixing has become terrible in recent years.
However, commenters noted this isn’t really about being an asshole. The top response gave a “NAH” (No Assholes Here) verdict. Moreover, Redditors shared their own subtitle struggles and offered practical compromise solutions.
The Verdict
The consensus was clear: NAH (No Assholes Here). This netflix subtitles marriage fight reflects a common modern viewing dilemma rather than true wrongdoing. Reddit users emphasized that both preferences are valid, making this more of a relationship issue requiring compromise than an asshole situation.
Original post from r/AmItheAsshole (1,449 upvotes, 1,237 comments)