Woman Refuses Previous Owner’s Children Access to House
The Original Post
This weekend, 2 people knocked on our door and said they were the previous ownerâs children. I answered via our ring camera. They explained that their father had just passed away and that they wanted to come inside to look around and see the house where they grew up. They were emotional and said they were struggling with the loss. And that this is was the place they had the most memories of and left connected to their father.
I felt bad, but I told them no. I explained that I wasnât comfortable letting people I donât know into my home, and I didnât feel safe or prepared to host strangers, regardless of the circumstances. My husband also wasnât home so I was alone.
They didnât take it well. One of them became visibly upset and the other said they couldnât believe I would deny them something so small when they had âlost everything.â They lingered on the porch for a bit, clearly angry, before eventually leaving.
About an hour later, another older woman came to my door. She introduced herself as their mother and the previous ownerâs widow. She asked again if she and the children could come inside, saying it would help them with closure and that it was âstill their home in a way.â She said they were devastated. At that point, I felt overwhelmed and uncomfortable. I told her again that I was sorry for their loss, but that the answer was still no. She left upset and disappointed.
AITA for not letting them in?
What Reddit Said
Reddit immediately rallied behind the homeowner with overwhelming NTA votes. However, commenters quickly revealed this wasn’t just about being rude to grieving people. In fact, this scenario is a well-known scam used by criminals to gain access to homes.
The top comment exposed how thieves commonly use this exact story to get inside houses. Moreover, a fraud investigator shared a chilling recent case where homeowners let in strangers with a similar sob story. Those “grieving” visitors then attacked and robbed the victims.
The Verdict
The overwhelming consensus: OP is Not the Asshole (NTA). Refusing previous owner children house access was the smart safety choice. This is a classic example of home safety where trusting strangers could have been dangerous. Reddit praised OP for prioritizing her security over emotional manipulation, even when facing multiple guilt trips from the supposed family.
Original post from r/AmItheAsshole (6,123 upvotes, 1,372 comments)